What I found was that most resources sited only 10% of cheating spouses in affairs move on to long term relationships. Well, if I were a betting person, the odds seemed to be in my favor.In my mind though, I believed Doug’s affair was one of the 10% that could turn into a long term relationship.Wearing a loose, off-white lace dress with bell sleeves, Sarah made her way towards her groom, realtor Patrick Maiani, who was waiting for her beside the outline of a heart in the shape of rose petals.
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There are certain things that strong military relationships have.
Maybe you just met this person in the military and are curious about the “what-ifs” that come with the relationship.
Therefore, the cheating spouses seem to possess all the qualities for each other that they thought had been lacking in their lives previously. Just because everything is wonderful right now and they feel that their spouses are the reason for their discontent, they will soon learn that their new relationship will just be as unsatisfying and problematic. Eventually the secrecy, excitement and newness of the relationship wear off.
There may be some things that don’t seem so appealing, but they put these unappealing issues in the back of their heads, thinking they really don’t matter so much. Eventually reality strikes, and those less than desirable traits seem to surface more and more and doubt starts to set in. When a person moves from one relationship to another without any self reflection, the relationship stays the same– only the players have changed. Maintaining an affair, and for the most part leading two separate lives, can be stressful.
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When I first found out about Doug’s emotional affair, I frantically researched books and the internet on surviving infidelity, as I wanted to know how long affairs last.
Perhaps you are already dating someone in the military but want to know more before making a serious commitment.
Dating someone in the military isn’t as glamorous as Hollywood makes it appear.
If she trusted him and believed he kept his commitment to her, why was she jealous? Willard Harley suggests in “His Needs Her Needs,” the affair partner may meet one or two of the spouse’s needs perfectly, but the husband/wife are meeting all the others.